Nothing Wasted

Trash Can

Recently, I was reflecting on the scripture found in John 9:1-12. Jesus and his disciples were walking along a road when they came upon a man who was blind from birth. The disciples asked Jesus if the man had sinned or his parents had sinned to cause this type of impairment. Jesus replied, neither this man NOR his parents had sinned. He was blind from birth so that at that moment in time, the works of God might be displayed in him. Jesus then made some mud in the dirt and put in on the man’s eyes. He then directed the man to go and wash the mud from his eyes and afterwards the man was able to see.

This man had suffered with an affliction his entire life, up until this point so that the manifestation of God’s mighty power could be visible to all who did not believe in Jesus at THAT moment in time.

In my current position, I get the opportunity to advise Freshman and Sophomore students who have not declared a major. After mid-term point, I get a huge influx of students who may be failing a class. I offer tutoring information, advise, but mainly I listen to their reasons for not doing well in a particular course or courses. Recently, I met with a number of students who were having a difficult time making the transition from high school to college.

I tell them all the time, “With freedom, comes responsibility.” Most have not found the balance between academics and socialization. Some don’t have good time management skills. Still others stay up late and then miss a lot of their early classes because they “sleep in” due to being tired. A lot of students are dealing with other outside forces that draw their attention away from being able to concentrate on their academics. Some are first-generation college students while others need to work to support themselves during college because they don’t have a support system at home.

I found myself being able to share some of my story with them of my college years. In a lot of cases, I went thru some of the same experiences they are experiencing now. As I was reflecting on this, the thought came to me that God doesn’t waste ANY of our life experiences, Sometimes we feel that life has been so unfair to us. We wonder why we have to go thru some things in our lives. A still small voice whispered to me, “I DON’T WASTE ANYTHING THAT YOU HAVE EXPERIENCED. I USE IT ALL!

Just like the blind man in the scripture, neither he nor his parents did anything wrong. He was born blind for the sole purpose that this man might be a witness of God’s power to others. At the appropriate time, he was given his sight.

This may be hard to digest why God would intentionally allow someone to go thru something like this for no apparent reason. The older I become the more I have come to trust and reverence God’s way. Romans declares that “All things work together for my good. ALL means ALL. The good, the bad, the ugly, the inconvenient; ALL OF IT! I encourage you to trust God’s way and trust God’s timing!





How Will They Know We Are Christians?

Christians By Our Love

Recently, my husband and I were having a conversation. Let me start off by saying, I am NOT a part of the “religious establishment!” Most of the time I keep my thoughts to myself because I am sure people would interpret them wrongly. However, something welled up in me this morning and I wanted to share this thought with you.

John 13:34-35 says, “A new commandment I give you that you LOVE ONE ANOTHER. AS I HAVE LOVED YOU, SO ALSO YOU MUST LOVE ONE ANOTHER!!! By this all men will know that you are My disciples, if you love one another…”

How simple this passage appears on the surface, but how strong is its message. In this passage, Jesus is commanding us to LOVE ONE ANOTHER.

He did not say that people would know we are Christians by how many Bible verses we can recite. He did not say that people would know we are Christians by how many revivals we attend. He did not say that people would know we are Christians by how active we are in our local church. He also did not say that people would know we are Christians by how much money we make.


I Corinthians 13 sums it up so beautifully. It reads;

“1 If I speak in the tongues of men or of angels, but do not have love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. 2 If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but do not have love, I am nothing. 3 If I give all I possess to the poor and give over my body to hardship that I may boast but do not have love, I gain nothing.
4 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. 5 It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. 6 Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. 7 It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
8 Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. 9 For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when completeness comes, what is in part disappears. 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put the ways of childhood behind me. 12 For now we see only a reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. 13 And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.”

AND NOW THESE THREE REMAIN: FAITH, HOPE, AND LOVE. BUT THE GREATEST OF THESE IS LOVE! Wow! I look around me and I see so many people who call themselves Christians, but are soo locked in their own religious prisons that these Bible passages have become just some Bible verses that they have memorized, much like they learned their ABC’s. My Beloveds, we have got to get back to the basic word of God. He said to love one another, not in word but in deed.

Love requires effort. It requires energy. Love sometimes requires sacrifice. Love requires forgiveness. Love requires humility. Love requires self-awareness, but it also requires selflessness! Love requires trust. Love requires a good report. Love requires patience. Love requires kindness. Love requires unity. Love requires vulnerability. Love requires fearlessness. Love requires much more than we ever thought!

Love requires us to adopt a new paradigm. A new way of thinking and behaving in the world. When we TRULY recognize and begin to walk in the God kind of love, as the body of Christ, we will rise strong and unified. I believe we will begin to see mighty changes in our workplace, our churches, our homes, and most importantly in our lives.


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Complacency vs.Contentment


Complacency – a feeling of smug or uncritical satisfaction with oneself or one’s achievements.

Contentment – a state of happiness and satisfaction

I always felt complacency meant laziness. I guess I should have looked up the definition sooner. As I was preparing to go to work one morning, the Lord reminded me of a scripture found in I Timothy 6: 6-10

6 Now godliness with contentment is great gain. 7 For we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain[a] we can carry nothing out. 8 And having food and clothing, with these we shall be content. 9 But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation and a snare, and into many foolish and harmful lusts which drown men in destruction and perdition. 10 For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil, for which some have strayed from the faith in their greediness, and pierced themselves through with many sorrows.

Lord, teach me how to be content in you. Call to my attention those times when I may begin to feel a sense of satisfaction with my own accomplishments and achievements. Help me to continue to recognize YOU as the source of my life. Amen!!

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Giving Thanks for Family!

Family Giving of Thanks

This week I had the opportunity of spending time with family I had not seen in years! Some relatives that are now adults, I had not seen since they were children. I felt blessed to have this opportunity to share a meal with them. We all traveled near and far to be together.

Connection is such a powerful thing! It’s no accident that God placed us in families!

At the heart of His divine plan for us, is the idea of relationship. He created us to be in relationship with Him and demonstrated this in establishing us in families of origin as well as extended family!

If we truly understood this, how powerful we could be as a family unit! I have read countless stories of how strong families have ruled nations, built empires, and founded companies and businesses we benefit from today!

In the Bible, God speaks in various passages about the family structure. He lays out the responsibilities of each family member. Sadly, the enemy wants to destroy the family unit.

For those of us who are of African descent, the family unit has been tested for hundreds of years! Our ancestral family units were torn apart in Africa and taken across the waters to a new and unfamiliar land. Once arriving in this land, our family units continued to be decimated.

To this day, we live with some of the vestiges of the destruction of our family units!

The good news is that God is able to restore those family units. I refuse to believe that those broken links in my own extended family cannot be restored! I refuse to accept that any part of my family is beyond repair. My responsibility is to continue to pray for my family and love them.

Many of us have experienced hurt, rejection, and disappointment at the hands of our family members. Instead of dealing with these feelings, some of us harbor resentment and show our hurt in various ways, such as our absence from family events and gatherings. Other ways we show our feelings are by passive aggressive behaviors or saying hurtful things to our loved ones!

The older I get, the more I understand that while harboring unforgiveness may hurt the other person, it hurts the person exhibiting this behavior more! It wears on our hearts, minds and other vital organs in our bodies. I strongly believe that it leads to some illnesses as well as the absence of clear thinking!

If you are experiencing discord in your family unit, make attempts to mend these broken links. Pray for your family member and continue to love them. If it is you that has been hurt, deal with what you are feeling and find a way to communicate your hurt with the family member. I have found that writing letters can be effective if you feel that your spoken words fall on deaf ears!

At any rate, put God in the midst of your family conflicts and allow Him to lead and guide the resolution and restoration of your relationship!


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Sowing and Reaping


A very wise First Lady of the United States once said, “When they go low, we go high!” A couple of years ago I experienced something in my work life that I felt was a low blow to me. I felt very upset because of this situation and wondered how could someone who is in a leadership capacity lack such professionalism.

As I meditated on this, the Holy Spirit dropped a word in my spirit.

Galatians 6:7-9 New International Version (NIV)

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.

What a powerful scripture and reminder that even in the midst of our challenges, God is there. It is our responsibility to ALWAYS take the high road, regardless to how “low” someone may go in their thoughts and actions towards us. Now, this is not always easy to do. Our flesh seeks to retaliate to the indignity that it feels. However, the Bible declares that vengeance is the Lord’s and He will repay. Sowing and reaping is a spiritual principal that is ALWAYS in operation in the earth. Sow good and you will reap good! Sow evil and you will reap evil! Be encouraged today. God’s word doesn’t lie and it will surely come to pass!

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